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Your Social Media Posts Can Be Used Against You in Court

Your social media can tell a different story than the one you’re telling in court. An Antonyan Miranda attorney explains three types of posts that could undermine your credibility during a divorce or child custody case.

What to expect

  • Why posts suggesting illegal or unsafe activity can invite scrutiny.
  • How your photos, videos, and captions may undermine your credibility.
  • Why vacation posts can become a problem when they contradict your explanation for missing parenting time.

You said you were too sick for parenting time. Your Instagram says Cabo.

A photo, video, or casual update can create questions you weren’t expecting to answer in court. In this clip, an attorney breaks down how posts suggesting illegal activity, questionable judgment, or contradictions in your story can become a problem during divorce and child custody proceedings.

Video insight

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Posts That Raise More Questions Than You Intended

Photos featuring large amounts of cash or videos involving weapons may attract attention beyond your followers. Depending on the circumstances, those posts could raise questions about your conduct, safety, or judgment. The context matters, but so does the explanation you may have to give when someone puts that content in front of a judge.

Your posts should not contradict the story you’re telling in court.

02

Your Online Image Can Affect Your Credibility

What feels funny or harmless online may look different when presented during a legal dispute. A photo, caption, or video can be used to challenge how you describe your behavior or responsibilities. Before posting, consider whether the content is consistent with the statements you’re making in your case—and how it might look to someone who doesn’t know the background.

03

When Your Vacation Photos Contradict Your Explanation

You tell your co-parent you’re too sick or too busy to exercise your scheduled parenting time. Then photos appear showing you on vacation in Las Vegas or Cabo. That inconsistency may give the other side a reason to question your explanation and credibility. The issue is the contradiction between what you said and what your posts appear to show.

This content is for general educational purposes only and is not legal advice. Court procedures, timelines and circumstances vary by case and jurisdiction.

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People think that they can avoid scrutiny until they're in court, then they're under a magnifying glass. What do I mean? Let's look at social media posts. People post things all the time that are potentially illegal. Why do you have large stacks of cash all around? Who's using that kind of cash in the 21st century and for what? Why are you firing automatic weapons in that video when you're in the state of California and it's illegal? Be very, very careful about that. What about anything unbecoming? What is unbecoming? Well, it's unbecoming to the circumstances. Would that be appropriate for your priest to see? Would that be appropriate for you to wear if you were going on a job interview? Anything that paints you in a bad light, if the optics are poor, they're poor. Why put that out there when you're under such scrutiny in such an important aspect of your life, your divorce, your custody, whatever the case is. Finally, anything that's impeachable. Let's say that you're not spending the custodial time on every other weekend that you're allotted with Johnny and you tell your ex, "Oh, I'm sick or I have a business trip." But then you're posting pictures of you in Vegas, you in Cabo. You can't do that kind of stuff because it's going to come into court, you're going to get impeached with those posts, you're going to look like a clown, and that's going to impact you in front of the judge because the judge is a human being also.

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People think that they can avoid scrutiny until they're in court, then they're under a magnifying glass. What do I mean? Let's look at social media posts. Pe...

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