Biggest Red Flags in a Marriage Most People Ignore

What's a red flag in a marriage that you often see people overlook? By the time that people come to me, the relationship is already over. But oftentimes it was pretty clear that at least 12 months prior to that, there had been a significant change — where there's a lack of communication, or some other degradation in the relationship. Other big things that people maybe don't overlook, but they don't seem to really take too seriously, are issues related to drugs, alcohol abuse, mental illness and, of course, domestic violence. They often chalk it up to stress or other factors, but these are real problems that can end a relationship — and end it really poorly.