Should You Force a Child to Forgive a Parent? Divorce Trauma Explained by a Family Lawyer

When divorce, betrayal, and family conflict collide, the emotional impact on children can be devastating. In this episode of Ask Alona, a real-life case explores whether a parent should encourage a child to forgive after discovering infidelity. A father shares his struggle: his young daughter refuses to speak to her mother after witnessing an affair. Should he push her to rebuild that relationship—or let her heal on her own? Family law expert Alona Antonian breaks down the psychology behind trauma, the stages of grief, and the legal and emotional risks of forcing reconciliation too soon. This video dives deep into parenting after divorce, co-parenting challenges, and how to truly support your child during emotional trauma. If you're dealing with custody issues, co-parenting struggles, or emotional healing after divorce—this video is a must-watch. Ilona breaks down:

• Whether you should encourage a child to forgive a parent
• The psychological impact of infidelity on children
• How divorce trauma affects kids differently
• Why forcing a relationship can backfire
• The importance of therapy (including EMDR for trauma)
• How to co-parent after betrayal
• What courts consider in custody and visitation situations

This episode is a must-listen for parents navigating divorce, custody disputes, and complex family dynamics.

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